Hypogamy
Marrying someone of lower status
Example
I don't think rom coms would exist without hypogamy
Related Slang
Hypergamy | Marrying up to increase status |
OTL | One true love |
WYMM | Will you marry me? |
Rom com | Romantic comedy |
Gold digger | A person who uses another person for money |
Sugar daddy | An older man used for his money by a woman |
Sugar mama | An older woman used for her money by a man |
Sugar baby | A young person who uses an older person for money |
Cougar | An older woman who dates younger men |
Trophy wife | An attractive wife of an older man |
Trophy husband | An attractive husband |
Gray divorce | A divorce between adults 50 years and older |
Divorce body | Physically fit body after divorcing |
Simp | A person who obsesses over someone |
Hypogamy is when a person marries down, which is when they marry someone who is lower in financial and/or social status. It is the opposite of "hypergamy" which is when a person marries up to increase social standing.
The "hypogamy" term dates back to 19th century India, but increased in popularity in the online dating world in the late-2010s. Hypogamous relationships typically involve a female marrying a male of lower status, but may also refer to a male marrying down.
Hypogamous relationships are often depicted in books, TV shows, and movies since they make for a compelling romantic story. In these examples, a person, typically a woman, who has one or more prospective suitors spurns them for the love of a less financially or socially attractive suitor.
Hypogamy is not as prevalent as it once was since social caste-like systems have largely been abolished. Instead of marrying for survival or to attain a larger dowry, a la Bridgerton, people can get married for other reasons, like love.