OnlyPlans
Consistently planning dates but never following through
Example
I'm stuck in OnlyPlans and need to get out
Next time you see her just take her out at that moment. No more plans!
The OnlyPlans feeling
Related Slang
| Zumping | Dumping someone over Zoom |
| Eco-dumping | Dumping a person because of their environmental views |
| Ghosting | Leaving without saying goodbye |
| Stashing | Dating a person but unwilling to publicly acknowledge it |
| Submarining | Dating a person, disappearing, then reappearing |
| Benching | Using a person as a backup date |
| Hiberdating | Ignoring friends while dating a person |
| Caspering | Ending a relationship in a friendly, but confusing way |
| Boyfriend bomb | A statement that reveals your crush has a boyfriend |
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OnlyPlans is when you repeatedly make plans with a person, but they never come to fruition. The term plays off OnlyFans, an online service where consumers can subscribe to content creators' channels.
It is unclear who coined the term, but it gained popularity in 2022 to describe the disappointment of making dating plans but never following through with them. The plans are typically broken because of a made-up or authentic excuse.
For example, you may be an OnlyPlans subscriber if your plans with the cute neighbor keep falling through. If you want to break free from OnlyPlans, be spontaneous and go on that date IMMEDIATELY.