Deadname
To call a person by a name they no longer use
Example
Jessica is transitioning and adopted the name Jake
Whoa, I didn't know that
Yeah. It's been hard because I keep deadnaming her accidentally
Related Slang
Enby | A non-binary person |
NB | Non-binary |
Trans | Transgender |
F2M | Female to male |
FTM | Female to male |
M2F | Male to female |
MTF | Male to female |
DSAB | Designated sex at birth |
SAAB | Sex assigned at birth |
QTPOC | Queer and/or trans people of color |
LGBTQ | Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer |
QUILTBAG | Queer, Questioning, Undecided, Intersex, Lesbian, Trans, Two-Spirit, Bisexual, Asexual, Allied, Gay, and/or Gender Queer |
Deadname is when a person calls someone by a name they no longer use since they have transitioned. For example, if an old friend called a transitioned woman "Kevin" (her birthname), they deadnamed her.
Often, people deadname others accidentally. For example, a dad may unintentionally deadname his son because he's used to calling him by his birth name.
However, people may also deadname others to reject the idea of them transitioning or as a way to taunt them and hurt their feelings. For example, a bully may deadname a transitioning student in high school.
People may also use deadname as a noun. For example, a woman may share, "I haven't been called by my deadname in 12 years."
Origin of deadname
The slang term "deadname" originated in the 2010s from trans activists. The name comes from the transitioning person adopting a new name and leaving their birth name behind, effectively killing it and leaving it dead.