The language of dating has changed just as much as the way people meet. From texting trends to TikTok-inspired catchphrases, today's dating scene comes with its own dictionary. Whether you're trying to understand why someone "ghosted" you or what it means to be stuck in a "situationship," staying on top of dating slang can help you better navigate romantic relationships. Here are 15 key terms that define modern dating culture.

1. Ghosting

Suddenly cutting off communication with someone without any explanation, disappearing into thin air (similar to cloaking, and a harsher version of caspering).

2. Breadcrumbing

Sending occasional messages to keep someone interested without the intention of actually committing.

3. Benching

Keeping someone on the sidelines while dating others, just in case (similar to cushioning).

4. Catfishing

Pretending to be someone else online to deceive a romantic prospect (more egregious form of kittenfishing).

5. Cuffing season

The colder months when people look for serious relationships instead of casual flings.

6. Soft launch

Subtly introducing a new partner on social media (e.g., posting a photo of just their hand or back).

7. Love bombing

Overwhelming someone with affection and attention early on to manipulate or control them later.

8. Thirst trap

A provocative photo or post meant to attract attention or admiration, often from a specific person.

9. Zombieing

When someone who ghosted you suddenly comes back and starts interacting again (also known as submarining).

10. Haunting

When a "ghoster" continues to engage with your social media (likes, views) without actually talking to you.

11. Situationship

A romantic connection that's more than a friendship but not quite a committed relationship (possibly due to stashing or pocketing) that likely requires a DTR.

12. Orbiting

When someone ends a relationship but continues to watch your stories or like your posts.

13. Rizz

A popular term short for "charisma" that refers to someone's ability to attract others romantically or flirt smoothly.

14. Date ladder

Dating a person with the primary purpose of attracting someone more desirable ("climbing the date ladder").

15. Red flag, Beige flag, and Green flag

Red - A warning sign of potentially problematic behavior in a partner.

Beige - A sign of awkward behavior in a partner, but ultimately unproblematic.

Green - A sign that someone is emotionally mature and potentially a good partner (you want to swipe right).

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